tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6739655481104184892.post7414723842251529851..comments2024-03-12T04:18:22.736-05:00Comments on Land Of Milk And Honey: Saturdaygingerhillery@mac.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11058818226976530765noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6739655481104184892.post-12239456441313704282010-03-30T09:19:18.911-05:002010-03-30T09:19:18.911-05:00Thank you so much, Jeff, for recognizing that is h...Thank you so much, Jeff, for recognizing that is has only been one month. We are making sure to not make any major decisions right now, but having broken vehicles blocking entrance to milking area is more depressing to me than saying farewell to them. I am trying hard to allow myself freedom to feel a bit of pain when it surfaces, bit by bit, and I think some things are just going to hurt. It does feel empowering, in a bizarre way, to see friends help me get some things done that Philip and I had been working on for the last couple of years, and even though it is hard to see things happen without him here, it gives me and the kids a greater sense of security watching others help make our work run more efficiently. <br /><br />All that said, I do remind myself, as the pain surfaces, that it has been only a month, and I think that we will be feeling pain and loss for a good long time, even when we manage to grab a smile or a laugh or a sweet memory along the way.gingerhillery@mac.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11058818226976530765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6739655481104184892.post-84066510764866636422010-03-29T20:11:23.320-05:002010-03-29T20:11:23.320-05:00A number of people have made the comment that majo...A number of people have made the comment that major decisions shouldn't be made for a year after the death of a loved one. If it hurts to think about doing something, wait until it doesn't hurt. It's only been a month ....Jeffhttp://turningpoints.iomaire.comnoreply@blogger.com